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Clergy Couples in Crisis: The Impact of Stress on Pastoral Marriages is unavailable, but you can change that!

What God hath joined together, let not the pastorate put asunder. Holding a pastoral marriage together is like canoeing the Colorado River. In the midst of exquisite scenery come stretches of white water that challenge a couple’s tenacity, pitch them one way and then another, soak them to the skin. The water, so placid a mile upstream, now roars its threat to swallow the frightened partners in...

pastor; others require an unpaid sabbatical of varying lengths. In still others, the leadership may be willing to aid, counsel, and eventually guide the divorced minister toward another parish, but local congregations remain wary. If a church does vote to accept such a pastor, the official act is only part of the battle; the trust and respect of individuals must still be won, often over a long time and at great cost. If the minister decides to step out of the denomination and take (or form) an independent
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